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The reality of Sexuality.

Issues of sexuality and things in-between are quite not an easy topic to tackle, but here I am, not promising to make you believe but promising to say the truth and only the truth. Let me begin with a disclaimer; I am not the pervert that you think I am, I am simply a curious bebe that has a few answers that I don’t want to keep to myself, therefore, I write for those people who are ready and willing to listen to these truths.. Last week I had a chance of attending a media training by Reproductive Health Uganda, a lot was said and I must say, I learnt a lot from whatever was said and interestingly most of the things that were said were true or are happening in real life and are not a myth at any level of life although we tend to perceive them as immoral and unrealistic, like can you imagine that most problems that occur in families are brewed in the bedroom? First of all we have to embrace the fact that the African Sexual cliché is real and alive, many parents don’t want their children

Stress Shouldn’t Stress You

Yesterday I sat in a taxi heading to Jinja super exhausted and stressed. Surprisingly the universe seemed to reflect my mood, it was cloudy and the taxi was very silent. All the passengers seemed to be lost in thought including the conductor which was strange because those ninjas are always talking. I took the backseat next to an old man who kept gazing at me until I found it annoying and I asked him what was going on. In his response which spanned almost over the entire journey this old man whom I came to know as Mtanda told me a familiar story; but being told by a different person with different circumstances it made much more sense especially in my fatigued state. Mr. Mtanda opened his bag, got out a notebook and picked out a postcard. He then put his notebook back in the bag and held the postcard. Raising it up he asked me how heavy I thought it weighed. I was confused, but I managed to muffle “May be 2 ounces”. By now I couldn’t figure what this man was getting to.  We moved a few